I had just seen the movie, “The Gingerbread Man.” The girl in my dream looked like actress Embeth Davidtz (above)
HenryMakow.com – April 9, 2026
My biggest regret in life is loving women.
Romantic love is a delusion mostly based on our powerful sexual and emotional instincts.
Most people, men or women, are not that lovable.
Carl Jung said that if you take away God, people worship false Gods (i.e. sex and romance.)
(((Hollywood Movies))) program us to seek romantic love above all else. Romantic love is an ersatz religion to teach us to seek ourselves in another person instead of in Self-development.
They taught us that sex is a “mystical experience,” the best life offers. “Sexual intercourse is a sacrament.
Orgasm is union with the universe.”
The quest for our “soul mate” or “other half” leads to arrested development in men (and women?)
The tendency to idealize other people is a mistaken quest for the God within. This mistake (“transference”) leads to disaster.
The spark of Divinity in our soul is the principle of our self-development. God is our soul mate.
“Dumping My Dream Girl”
Updated from Feb 8, 2011 & June 27, 2019
by Henry Makow PhD
I am proud of a dream I recently had.
Embeth Davidtz
I was young again and single. My beautiful girlfriend and I were shopping. I suggested we go back to my apartment. I was feeling loving and wanted to hang out and cuddle. Just be happy together. Sex wasn’t an issue.
Shortly after arriving, she says she has to leave.
Thwarted in love. Again.
In the dream, I press her for an explanation. She doesn’t have one.
She doesn’t want to be with me. I grant her wish.
I tell her I’m not interested in games. We’re finished.
The End. Don’t come back.
I wake up pleased by my subconscious bravado.
Dreams are generally the images and vignettes our minds create from our feelings when our conscious operating program is mostly shut off in sleep. Dreams tell us more about our feelings and fears than about what is going on or what has or will happen. For Henry if he is truly a whistleblower then he obviously feels rejected by someone or something he loves or once loved. Truth is light but it often leads us to places we do not want to go, conflicting us with our various interests, and sometimes making us hypocrites. It takes a brave soul fortified by the master and lord of truth to suffer the rejection of the crowd and do the right thing.
I have to strongly disagree with brilliant Henry Makow about women.
Quote: “My biggest regret in life is loving women. Romantic love is a delusion mostly based on sexual attraction. Most people, men or women, are not that loveable.”
All people are loveable, most people are in such turmoil trying to just get by they seem unlovable but it is only the result of living in hell on a Jew controlled planet where everyone is made to suffer under the debt based money system.
Quote “Cabalists (Satanists) created romantic love as an ersatz religion, to teach us to seek ourselves in another person instead of in pleasing God.”
Why should anyone try to please God if you are in hell? In my opinion, we are in hell because we are on a planet with Jews. I think loving the God of the Bible is the greatest mistake ever. God is the EGO of the Jews projected on divinity.. The deity of the Old Testament/Torah/Tanak is a monster just like those that imagined him. Good luck trying to love and please a monster who demands blood sacrifices.
The Love of a Beautiful Woman is Better than God
https://anunnakiabominations.wordpress.com/2019/02/15/the-love-of-a-beautiful-woman-is-better-than-god/
Choose Love Over God
https://anunnakiabominations.wordpress.com/2019/02/15/choose-love-over-god/
https://theuniverseisaprisonforthesoul.wordpress.com/2018/09/19/human-abominations-a-specie-that-whoreships-god/
https://theuniverseisaprisonforthesoul.wordpress.com/2018/09/07/the-most-evil-book-ever-written-is-considered-the-holiest/
https://soulinthehologram.wordpress.com/2018/04/30/god-must-hate-me-for-i-find-myself-condemned-to-planet-earth/
Everyone when they are young often go into relationships with certain unrealistic expectations. Maybe a lot of the reasons people fail is that they often do not ask themselves the right questions. Marriage is a commitment, it takes a person with good character and self sacrifice and teamwork. People have to have compatible dispositions and a willingness to work through difficult periods. One of the characteristics I have notice over the years in failed relationships is the total lack of people skills. They often criticize their mates and undermine their relationships by the way they talk and treat one another.Why do we have all this attention on looks ?Most people when young are somewhat attractive unless life has handed them some difficult circumstances to over come. I have been married for fifty three years,was it easy, no, it took self control and a willingness to work through problems as they occur. As one get older the relationships often gets better.You are happy to have a companion you have been with all you life that you love and respect. It does not get much better than that.
Henry nails it!
I’m still married after 43 years, with gorgeous grandchildren that affirm the Devine value of our contract made so long ago.
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Too many people nowadays say they “don’t believe” in Love, but what kind of a world would there be if Love DIDN’T exist?
Quote from Desiderata (Google it).
“Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.”
Those who don’t believe in Love haven’t found it yet. We Love our children. Children Love their parents. Who can deny the Love we feel for our non-Human companions (“pets”), and the Love they give back to us? It’s not merely the fact that we feed them. It’s REAL LOVE, and it works both ways.
I wouldn’t attempt to deny the power of lust for an attractive member of the opposite sex, but when we find the Love of our life we really are in Heaven.
I pity those still looking, but don’t give up on Love or you’ll never find it.
this material dualistic world is a labyrint
of human relations because we dont can
see into heart + feelings of the other .
it will all be resolved when we in an other
realm encounter each other only with
telepatic language . there are no lies +
no hiding truth anymore !
and no trix !
Our agreement to sever sense from spirit violates a longing for the unconditional.
The ghost of the bonds we would not acknowledge returned to haunt us.
The novocaine of shared pleasure wore off.
Leaving us with an individual ache.
No matter how pure the heart or innocent the intent, the notion of pleasure without consequence, intimacy without commitment, sensation without deliberation, is an illusion.
The structural contradiction involved in the myth of sexual fulfillment. The sexual revolution focused upon the individual’s right to pure sensation. At the same time that it liberated sex from guilt, it encouraged us to divorce it from love and commitment.
The sensate focus, the proclamation of the right of individuals to share sexual sensations with whomever they pleased, carried with it the idea that liberated sex could be divorced from continuity of caring, from consequences, from children, from community. Stripped of its context, sex became a happening between genitals that were only incidentally connected to persons who had a history and hopes for the future.
-Sam Keen
(Forget that previously posted cut and paste mess)
I agree : CHOSE LOVE OVER ANY
GOD WORSHIP ! GOD CAN TAKE
CARE FOR HIMSELF ! DONT NEEDS
YOUR PRAYERS !
better serve your fellow man/woman, not
an oppressor !
all tribes needed some curency for to trade .
the only curency of value was WORK for the
other . this Hitler introduced : VALUE WORK !
the polynesian tribes had Kauri shells from
womens handiwork .on island Jap they had big
stone cut wheels what was their curency : IT
WAS WORK ! NO WALLSTREET GAMBLING
SPECULATIONS !
I still agree with what I wrote back then, most unfortunately my blogs were shuttered (on the very day of the Alex Jones Sandy Hook thing) so the links go nowhere. It seems the attack on the blogosphere was well coordinated and AJ plays a central role, and BTW I was given no warning that wordpress was going to delete everything, and I was NOT allowed to even respond, my account was terminated and I was locked out – no 30 day grace period to transfer the information. Luckily I had saved everything multiple ways.
Henry Makow bares his soul and is at war with women. He condemns romantic love with woman, and like an Judaic priest he says save your love for God. But his “god” is his ego, his self, and thus when you love the Bible god you are loving onto this ultra cruel male Judaic deity created by the Jewish priests, who Makow now emulates. Makow proves his cruelty toward his imaginary woman in his dream, she thwarts him, offending his supremacist ego:
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quote:
“Shortly after arriving, she says she has to leave.
Thwarted in love. Again.
In the dream, I press her for an explanation. She doesn’t have one.
She doesn’t want to be with me. I grant her wish.
I tell her I’m not interested in games. We’re finished.
The End. Don’t come back.”
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He is true to his supremacist ego, but so narcissistic unable to see what is going on. His dream is about him thwarting real love, leaving him to love his ego he calls god. If I was his shrink, that is what I would tell him.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662
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I, of course, completely object and reject Makow’s thesis on love and woman. In fact I say god is a delusion of Anunnaki hybrid abominations locked down on a prison planet. Many researchers now understand that the Abrahamic religions are actually Anunnaki cargo cults. Primitive man, not understanding his real origin, not understanding his slave status to phony gods, worships the power and might of space alien technology no different than the Melansian cargo cults which formed when the US Army Air Corp made air bases on remote Pacific islands. Primitives, who eat grubs, see silver birds descend from the skies, they are given candy bars and Spam and are forever changed in awe of such technological prowess.
So if you want to waste your time worshipping that as your god, go ahead, and go live in Israel, and join the Abraham cult of power and might, then hate on Palestinians because the gods chose you, not the other. But if you listen to me, then I say do not waste your time with the Jew god – ego, but cultivate real love with a very beautiful woman.
It does make a difference if the woman is beautiful, because what is going on in her inside is then projected to the outside. She is like an unfolded flower on display, and if she has a beautiful soul, then it reflects into the outer world. And thus my logic, that real love can be found in her soul, not the horrific ego god of the Jews. Thus my outrageous essay title:
Choose Love Over God
On December 22, 2018 By YUKON JACK
https://ibb.co/ccDQ3TX
In my life I’ve discovered women are in love with the IDEA of love, and being in love, but, like I’ve learned in a lifetime of fishing, shiny things often get a fish to bite. Just has to be dangled properly.
And as a wise YOUNG friend once said;
“You don’t lose your girl. You lose your turn”.
Nice essay. I agree. The glue that holds us together is love. We have been programmed into a weird point of view for the purpose of control.
And I have lived the ‘structural contradiction involved in the myth of sexual fulfillment.’
Stop, look, and listen. In putting the cart before the horse one too many times I inadvertantly freed both the horse and the cart. I also annulled any chance of reversing prior ‘mistakes’. No horse, no cart, no relationship. It’s just how it rolls.
I don’t always agree with Yukon Jack, but I do on this occasion. Well done Jack.
To pick up on just one of your points, if a woman is beautiful on the outside, it’s because she’s beautiful on the inside. Ugly people are ugly to look at. Ignore Nature’s warning at your peril.
Marriage by consent requires romantic love.
Barney–I have often wondered whether nasty people become ugly or the other way round. The more beautiful children may be loved more and then have a generous personality
all women worship power + look for
powerful men . men which dont meet
this requirement have to become monks .
this was always so in Tibet, India + other
southasian societies . because every little
man on earth thinks to create a family .
this crazy idea has brought us 8 billion
worldpopulation .
“Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence”
(H.L. Mencken)
Getting married and living together til death do us part is no longer on the priorty list. Girls want guys that help pay their bills. Why settle for one man’s salary when she can hang out with two or four guys per month who put tax free money on the table, plus collect SNAP, and HUD housing benefits.
I appreciate the Yukon Jack writing this time; Biblists are so often doing a bad job of hiding ego, behind something much too small to hide it properly
Indeed..
It’s interesting to zip back and examine the commentariat of yore…and weep at what we’ve become..
is it not?
lolo…
of course Henry’s still whining about pussy..but now of course it’s Satans pussy..of course Satana was a female deity..for those in the slight bit interested…
Carl Gustav Jung
Hayagriva dasa: Jung gave the following criticism of Sigmund Freud: “Sexuality evidently meant more to Freud than to other people. For him it was something to be religiously observed….One thing was clear; Freud, who had always made much of his irreligiosity, had now constructed a dogma, or rather, in the place of a jealous God whom he had lost, he had substituted another compelling image, that of sexuality.”
Dialectic Spiritualism – A Vedic View Of Western Philosophy
“Carl Jung said that if you take away God, people worship false Gods (i.e. sex and romance.)”
Hmmm. The problem might be making a “god” of false piety. Maybe the reason why there are so many deviants in the Church is because they suppress natural instincts – the downward breath – and over concentrate on being “perfect” – overemphasizing the upward breath. So ultimately there comes an “over correction” when all that was needed was a visit from the five fingered widow.
Balance is the key. Sexual continence is bad for the prostrate. No good thinking about it all the time when you have an erection and are “battling the idea of being sinful” while basking in your “righteousness”. The Catholic Church has made a fortune from guilty wankers…
The problem for a man from a finding a mate perspective is not to have the “lover’s sigh”. Don’t chase a woman, she won’t respect you. The Catch-22 is that if you like them too much, they think they are too good for you…
Best thing is to concentrate on one own’s development. If a woman comes along, it’s best that she accepts your leadership. Otherwise remain single rather than compromise with a woman who regards you as a beta male Women are hypergamous; they like to “marry up”.
This part of the Bible I agree with. Genesis 3:16
“Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.”
Henry is still in need of some ’embeth-y’?
Your biggest ‘regret’ should be for your misguided expectations. Have some compassion for yourself. Mother Nature is grand in her display…she also eats her young in some cases. Although, being single IS the best life for ME, absolutely!
Letting go of misguided, though well-intentioned, expectations of myself and others has proven to be most liberating!
I didnt want to be with an ugly narcissistic kike wanker
“At 76, My Biggest Regret is Loving Women” … What the f*ck is wrong with that limp dick? Er, maybe that’s it right there…
My biggest pleasure and privilege in life has been to love women, several of them, all of them beautiful and amazing in their way. And I’ve plowed a significant number of women, sometimes 2 or 3 at a time, and only regret a few, and never paid for one like some chump. Say what you want about woe-men, and I’ve met plenty of doozies, but I feel quite fortunate to have had the companionship and love of several women of superior beauty, talent, and character…I’m with one right now.
Simon, the last sentence was perfect.
“So far, he seems the most sensible.” lol
“My biggest regret in life is loving women….”
& their biggest regret is is catching Madkow Disease 🤣🤣
What a poor cynical soul you have become. I chose very well indeed. The only regret I have after 45 years is that I wasn’t more worthy of her!