“It helps to see heterosexual love as a mystical dance. The male leads; the female follows.”
HenryMakow.com – Feb 10, 2024
Latest- On reflection, all my problems with women were because I lacked Self-confidence. I didn’t know who I was or what I wanted. I suffered from arrested development. It wasn’t until around 50, I solved the riddle. This article describes my awakening.
Heterosexuality is not based on “equality.” It is based on unequal Power.
Masculinity is defined by Power. Femininity is defined by Love. Men want power. Women want love.
Heterosexual marriage is an exchange – female power for male power expressed as love.
A woman shows her love by entrusting her power to a man who has won her trust through courtship. This is feminine.
When men surrender power, they are emasculated.
This article, my first on the Internet 22 years ago, describes how I learned to follow my masculine instincts.
The male is dominant in a heterosexual relationship.
The Cabalists (Satanists) have neutered both sexes by teaching women to seek power instead of love. They are tampering with the fundamental laws of the universe (yin active-yang passive.)
By Henry Makow PhD
When I was 21 years old, and living in Israel, I received a letter from my mother. She had taken my savings and invested in a townhouse.
“Now, you are a mensch,” she said.
I wondered what she meant. How did owning a house make me “a man?”
I came of age at a time when youth was “looking for an identity.” I was searching for it in Israel. Later, I became a Canadian nationalist. In each case, I didn’t find identity in “community.”
I had a strong patriarchal father, an excellent role model. He built a successful career and supported a family.
“Find work you enjoy,” he would tell me. “Work is the backbone of a man. It’s the most important decision a man makes. A wife is the second.”
But for some reason, his example didn’t register. Why not?
For centuries, men defined themselves in terms of masculinity. Why was I so clueless?
I took my cues from the mass media. I was a feminist.
That’s right, and if you go to the next level and be a murderer the ladies will swoon more
Love the bit where his mother told him he was a ‘man’ now..
.. of course ‘jewes’ are dominated by their mothers..which.. when amplified by a real lack of cultural masculine identity (other than doing their best to trick their G-d who resembles a sort of Elohim Hitler and reinterpret what he commanded them to do) is why they invent all of this forever shifting pseudo-intellectual nonsense…
Most of it iintended to ‘redefine’ healthy masculine cultures ..which of course terrify them…
and generally looks like various forms of unhealthy sexual perversion…
this rules still exist in the jewish + islamic
world , not in our white quarrelsom femenist
fruits of Rockefeller + jew Frankfurt school spoils .
If you read the whole article you will find some very wise psychological advice similar to many things Jordon Peterson has been saying – also trying to turn our insane ideas of equality over fundamental natural differences back the way they ought to be.
In a free society and democratic society our national constitutions and human rights codes give us the impression that we are free to believe anything we want, and in that respect you would think that most people would want to believe in the way they naturally are. But no, we can’t have that. The Western establishment clearly wants the masses to believe what they (those who claim to own everything) want them to believe which is clearly to have as few children as possible. That is the very purpose of the complementarity in marriage which Henry discusses actually is. It is to have children, and in places such as Israel there is a premium on having them.
Meanwhile is places such as Canada, which is virtually quite an empty nation regarding actual population, you really have to wonder why promiscuity, free sex, shacking up, feminism, homosexuality and lesbianism became the gospel of the Canadian establishment, the government, and the media.
We known how all Western nations have been subject the population peril hoax just as the people everywhere have been subjected to the CO2 global-warming hoax, and the Covid plandemic, and we know these crimes against humanity are all coming from the same Western oligarchic source, which is the “money-power cabal” which thinks that there are simply too many people in the world. If their actual target for depopulation was the third-world populations, it would appear that they decided that they had to start somewhere which was to set a good example by starting their own nations. Certainly, if they realized that through education and affluence there would be less children anyway in the West, they must have seen that their efforts to eradicate religion, while promoting promiscuity, feminism, and all manner of sexual deviance would have devastating results with respect to Western demographics. Surely to meet their population reduction goals they would have clearly foreseen to coming population collapse.
Coincidentally, it is the same cabal which claims to own and control virtually everything in the world, which has so mismanaged the economy, incessantly telling us that it also is about to collapse. It is the same people who made trillions on “free trade” while debt rigging the governments of every Western nation. It is the same people who engineered the 2008 and 2019 economic crises in order to transfer vast amounts of wealth to themselves, who also engineered the Covid plandemic with the biggest wealth transfers in history to themselves.
As for the problem between women not being real women and men not being real men, that confusion emanates mainly from the same top-down source, through the media and entertainment industries brainwashing and dictating to people what the alleged “norm” is, and then our shill governments, legislatures, courts and educational systems carving into stone in the minds of the young that which is actually the abnormal.
By today’s standards, I was a late starter. I didn’t find my masculinity until late into my eighteenth year. Or rather, I should say, that it was the lithe and most exquisitely beautiful, Amanda, who found it for me.
Thanx Henry,
You correctly identify the fruitful path. I’ve been married to the same woman for over 50 years and have gorgeous grandchildren to warm my heart in old age.
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Makow, being a jew, doesn’t understand “masculinity”… the jew mind is strictly selfish and materialistic, very feminine qualities .. the reason they don’t understand how to be hetero is the fact they are shallow, and abstract principles which require suffering such as honesty, bravery etc are devalued and nearly absent in their minds… in fact I’m saying they are all “mind” and material, everything is objectified…. “my precious…my precious….”
Actual normal men don’t write about this stuff.
DNA determines a LOT of personality, identical twins separated early end up liking the exact same music, books, etc.
As a male, I must disagree totally with the “men want power”. I don’t have any desire for power or control, unless it’s self-control. Scripture says “he who controls himself is mightier than he who conquers ten cities”. I don’t want a submissive woman. That is the spirit of Islam, the spirit of Satan, period! I desire a woman who isn’t afraid to speak the truth of the matter (as did Deborah the prophetess and judge, see the book of Judges) and stir her fellow men into action, righteous action, or if needs be, take action (it was Deborah, a woman, that killed the enemy leader). A real man (or woman) doesn’t need validation from the opposite sex by assuming roles defined by lies of religion! Get out of Babylon! Repent or suffer His Wrath! Jesus LIVES!!!!!
Feminism was formulated by Jews to release the white female from white male authority & program them to remain childless or prefer/reproduce with nonwhite males in these western multiracial societies. The Jew includes white women in their war against the white male i.e. ‘women & minorities’ is one of their popular Commie phrases in the USA. This propaganda is very effective, for most white women are now dating/mating with these simians & wogs in these Western nations–thus proving how weak minded females are.
ask capt ajit vadakayil : Hindu women are
the best in the world . not quarrelsom like
western white women .
I find it rather ironic the piece titled “How I Found My Masculine Identity” features an image at the top of a rather effeminate looking…ahem…man. Quite the dandy, that one, with his string-bean physique, pencil neck, and overtly light in the loafers look. And instead of gazing lustily at the ravishing beauty in his arms, he looks off in the distance, almost certainly focused on the “manhood” of another male more to his…taste…
I’m not saying that because he is dancing, as my tougher-than-nails Dutch-German grandfather was a professional ballroom dancer in the years after WWI, and went on to own some big band dance halls as one of his business interests. Being a gifted dancer made him quite the ladies man. But my grandfather, as fluid as he was on a dance floor, also had arms like thick steel cables and could snap the spines of many other men in half.
About that image at the top, I’m also not saying a “man” has to look like some jacked knuckle-dragger with a neck like a throbbing Virginia ham, that’s more troglodyte than man, but if that guy in the image isn’t a flaming faggot, I’ll eat his shoes after he steps in shit.
Thankfully, I never suffered with issues about my masculine identity. Toughness and resilience were pounded into me from an early age, as were, eventually, the refinements of being an honorable gentleman. I have lived, loved, spoke truth to power, fought the good fight, defended the weak, and have literally rescued damsels in distress…the last 7 or 8 physical fights I have been in were going to the rescue of a woman being attacked or a lightweight being abused, with most of those attackers needing emergency medical treatment and a good oral surgeon immediately afterward. A few of them may have needed a body-bag, I didn’t stick around to find out.
Lord knows I never needed my mother to tell me I was a man…but plenty of other women have sure let me know…
The biggest problems I’ve had with women has been deciding which one of them I was going to f*ck next…hell, not an hour ago I had an attractive tall blonde give me THE look in a grocery store. If I was single right now I would have plowed her on the hood of her car.
Anyway, I feel bad for the younger males today as so many of them have been sabotaged and short-circuited by the relentless mind-f*ck they have been subjected to thanks to the program of degradation and destruction of Jewry.