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Henrymakow.com — Nov 21, 2021

A Victoria’s Secret model, the perfect 10?

Let’s end the lockdown by taking our mind off the #scamdemic and thinking about love and sex instead!

My cult-ural brainwashing cost me a normal sex life and family. 

(Updated from May 7, 2020) 

by Henry Makow Ph.D. 

Lately I have been thinking about a really great woman I knew when I was 24.  I ignored Liz because I wasn’t sexually attracted to her. She was pleasant-looking but there was no “chemistry.”

She had many of the qualities in the left-hand column below, and she liked me. But my tastes and even my ideas had been formed by PLAYBOY.   Average looking women literally were invisible.

I had been brainwashed by my cult-ure to believe that “sexual attraction” is 90% of what male-female relationships are all about. 

Marriages were based on sexual attraction. You had to live together before marriage to make sure you were “sexually compatible.”  Sex was the Holy Grail.

I was thinking about Liz lately, wondering what her life has been like. Wondering how my life would have been had I responded to her overture.

It must be hard for really great women to be ignored just because they aren’t “hot.” All women are beautiful in the act of love. Their face is a light show.

Men search in vain for a porn model that turns them on. None do because there is no emotional connection. What we really seek is femininity, charm and personality.

I was thinking about Liz because at age 72, I realize that great sex is only part of a good marriage. I don’t want to underestimate it. Men, and especially women, need it. Marriage is by far the best way to get it, and it does create a bond.

But good sex isn’t dependent on sex appeal. There is no greater turn-on than the look of love in a woman’s eyes. We seek intimacy, not physical release.



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