HenryMakow.com – June 10, 2025
YouTube is full of videos of women complaining that men are no longer
interested in forming relationships.“Men are no longer obsessed with women,” they complain.
Heterosexuality is based on the exchange of female worldly power for male protection & love.
Most men love a woman because she sacrifices power. She trusts his leadership.
Feminism has taught women to seek power instead of love, and compete with men. This has effectively neutered them. Power = penis.
(Feminism is a Communist depopulation program aimed at undermining marriage and the family.)
Feminism taught men to seek a woman’s approval above his own (i.e. transference, idealizing a woman instead of obeying his best Self.)
(Disclaimer – This template has worked for centuries. That’s why the usual suspects are trying to destroy it.)
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Possession is the Essence of Marriage
(Updated from Dec. 2009 and April 1, 2018)
by Henry Makow Ph.D.
My wife recently asked me why I loved her.
Rather than enumerate her good qualities, I answered honestly: “Because you are submissive.”
At the risk of being politically incorrect, many men do not seek strong independent women. They do not seek great beauty, brains or sex, but the simple feeling of “possessing” a woman. In other words, what they seek is a degree of ownership or power. This is part of masculine identity.
And many women have the complementary desire, to be possessed, to totally “belong” to their husband.
In a blog post, Joseph William, in his thirties, claims he has slept with 100 women and nearly all of them wanted to be dominated in bed. They wanted the man to take charge. This has a general application. Women need men to take the initiative. They acquiesce or reject.
The essence of heterosexuality is the exchange of female power for male power expressed as love. This is the heterosexual contract. If a woman is not submissive or a man unloving, the contract has been broken, and they must consider separation.
When a woman surrenders to her husband, she gives him the power to grant her wishes, or not. He does not exploit, control or dominate. He respects her individuality and freedom.
He wants her to want to be his. He consults and nurtures. He makes the final decision.
Every family needs a head. A creature with two heads is a monster.
INTIMACY
Makov has a religious mind and not an evolutionary one. The latter is only 200 years old and society has not fully learned it yet, and when it does, it will still need some new guidance. Different species have responded differently to the enmity between male and female; there are any number of ways to find a compromise, and, within humans, there are a few. All the compromises are unsatisfactory, as Nature itself can never find an easy position. Faced with this, religious people just try to nail some lies down with a lot of force, maybe symbolised by three big nails in a good man’s body
Who wouldn’t heed the advice of a man who has slept with hundreds of women in need of ‘dominance’?
Perhaps each of the women has also slept with hundreds of men, and that purported need for dominance is rooted in a ‘the devil made me do it’ transference of ‘power’ mystique, rendering the man subordinate to entities beyond his recognition during his impotent quest for ‘dominance’.
Although my view has changed since May 2023, I did yesterday again consider this idea of nailing down the truth (or lies, as I called it 15 months ago) in a spectacular way, and it is like nailing the pendulum at one of its extreme positions. Possession by the male is not at all necessarily the ideal
Sounds like the writer of the article is muslim becuse it is the Muslim view that you just wrote.
The Jews & Commies brainwash/program (via TV/cinema/magazines/social media/sports) these moronic white women to desire wog males. The majority of these interracial ads on TV exhibit white females with wog males. True, white males are involved with wog females too, but most interracial unions are white female/wog male. Nothing will improve for the white man until the Jews & wogs are removed from their ‘nations’. The goal is to establish a white monoracial society/nation free of Jews/wogs. Once that is achieved then these sexual issues are meaningless–for only whites will be copulating/reproducing with each other.
“This shyness is a gift of nature to the fair sex, and it enhances their beauty and prestige, even if they are of a less important family or even if they are less attractive. We have practical experience of this fact. A sweeper woman commanded the respect of many respectable gentlemen simply by manifesting a lady’s shyness. Half-naked ladies in the street do not command any respect, but a shy sweeper’s wife commands respect from all.”
Śrīmad-Bhāgavatam 1.10.16
moslems treat women the only right way !
no feminism crazyness, no endmancipation !
divorce is easy + cheap !
white man goy LEARN !
Possession is Satanic in essence, so you might want to reconsider this notion. It is rather basic in most spiritual studies. If you understand the difference between PreAdamic and Adamic, you know the latter has individuated and has a difference path to follow than the beginner model which still exists within the soul group. The Adamic has to go thru the afterlife review, deal with karma, etc. Male/Female, rich/poor, this or that race, religion etc is meaningless for the soul, these elements are tools for the mind to play with as it eventually reaches Late Adamic and needs to Choose sides. Stay the course and join the Satanic rulers here in purgatory or find the exit and return to the Edenic side of the Tree of Life.
Possession is a control issue, thus for those inclined to the Satanic or negative side of that Tree.
Possession applies to both man and wo-man and one does not need Satan or demons to slither by as an excuse – selfishness with a pinch “I am better than most others” will do and that starts normally with childhood.
The transformed creature in the picture above will educate children by itself at one stage. And there YOU have it! No satan or demons, just a political correct Go-vermin on kosher strings guiding one sheep among other down a slippery slide while making usual coins from nothing along the way.
This whirled starts with “MY” this and that and ends with the loss of “MY” body which was owned by an utterly depraved mind. IT just simply was a vessel that was left behind after the “I” moved on.
In the middle ages when a person of high authority shouted “heretic” – damnation (and likely death) followed. Half a millennia later mankind comes “evolutionized, Godless and is smarted up fully to high intelligence and artificial wisdom through useless gadgets that cost a lot of coin” and if these days a female of “high authority” screeches: “That is politically INCORRECT” – damnation (and likely death) will follow.
Once they were women. What could be a better scapegoat than someone else to blame. If it was not man that brought on the change it must be Satan, there is no other way! It surely wasn’t me!
Henry Makow says that effective journalism must have appeal to the reader. A good article, he says, engages attention in its first paragraph before the mainstay of the argument can unfold.
The problem with Henry’s excursions into marital advice, however, is that he isn’t writing for his audience. He’s justifying his own peculiar attitudes to himself.
I don’t think that it’s at all edifying to shop for a bride, as Makow did.
Submission to a my authority isn’t a quality that I look for in a woman. Femininity, yes. Chasteness, yes but I thoroughly despise Burquas and Niqabs.
I have no objection to stockings and suspenders, though.
In his next life, Henry will be ruled over by a sadistic, leather clad dominatrix of a wife, with a cat-o’-nine-tails that she’ll joyously deploy agin his bare naked bottom, at least three times a day and it will serve him bloody well right.
I used to think the root of the word woman was womb as in womb-man, but it’s starting to look like it’s woe.
yep Crowley is right
just more self absorbed narcissistic materialistic scrubbers…piss on them
More BS. Most of these white scrubbers are full of sh*t. I’m sure numerous white men approach them but they’ve been brainwashed by the commie media to only want some nig-wog.
A man has to be worthy of submission.
All modern men have failed to protect women and children from Jewish corruption. Therefore, modern men are completely unworthy of women, family, or genetic rewards of any kind. If you can’t protect your society from Jews, you deserve extinction.
white scrubbers upset not every white man wants to insert his sausage in some hole that once had an ape, negro or wog dong in it
@ MM
The word ‘woman’ originated in ancient times when a few guys were standing around and a smokin’ hot babe walked by and one of them said “Whoa! man, look at that”
who cares about these brainless slappers
Women – If You Want ME;
Have a plump a$$, BIG tits, a decent kisser… and ❤ housework…
and – oh yeah – stfu when I’m watching the game! 😊
@ PAN
CORRECT !
I am just a stoneage collector + hunter .
because I am not more alowed to hunt
because of overpopulation I cannot
support a family on this planet + the sly
skills of Wallstreet calculators I dont have .
therefore I look for an real paradise planet
or dimension were I like animals dont need
to work for a living just enjoy life hunting +
collecting food, not freezing on a tropical
planet . creator/a ows it to me after his jewish
ruled + spoiled hellplanet !
My friend [R.I.P.] lost his house, his cars, his bank accounts, his stocks, just about everything it took him 40yrs to build because he met a flaming psychotic entitled feminist bitch and control freak who talked him into getting married and impregnating her, and because he was blinded by what he thought was love, but was really his hard shiny cockhead smiling at finally having a sweet delicious gooey slit to pound, he fell for it and then her real plan unfolded with lightning speed and she divorced him and robbed him blind of everything. This world is full of these rancid nasty evil witches who will play this game forever, but the thing is this ; men have finally woken up, and WE ARE DONE WITH THESE BITCHES. You fought for your independence, so get your lazy obese asses out there and work till you drop, you filthy smitten pigs.
My friend walked into his Chemistry lab one day a couple months after losing everything, he mixed some Potassium Cyanide in some water in a beaker, and he drank the shit without hesitation and died instantly. THIS is why men want nothing to do with these gargoyles and medusae. They are shallow, greedy, entitled, arrogant, and in most cases, downright UGLY. So hey Girls ; shove it where the sun don’t shine, cause you deserve NOTHING. Enjoy a life without affection cause you ain’t gettin’ any from us guys ever again.
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