HenryMakow.com – Sept 6, 2022
What I wish I knew when I was 21. (I am 72 now.)
This repost is needed now more than ever when the Satanists are messing with our perception of reality.
” Avoid women who exhibit any of the four-C’s: compete, control, criticize or complain.
Avoid women who are overachievers or neurotic. Don’t get hung up on unavailable women.
They’re not as special as they think. Choose a wife who complements you and is a good companion.
Choose one who will be a good mother.”
Revised From Feb 27, 2015
by Henry Makow PhD
My life was dysfunctional until the age of 50 partly because I accepted the feminist assumptions purveyed by the mass media.
I never imagined the Communist central banking cartel is destabilizing society by trashing heterosexual roles. This hate attack on the traditional family continues unabated today. The purpose is undermine resistance to a totalitarian New World Order disguised as a permanent pandemic.
Like millions of men, I was let “off the hook” by sexual liberation and feminism. Instead of becoming a husband and father, I was free to have sex and search for my “identity.”
Often sex and identity were confused. I didn’t understand that men mature and find purpose by assuming the responsibility of marriage and family.
As a result, I suffered from arrested development (immaturity) and missed my opportunity to have a family.
What follows is an antidote to Communist feminist propaganda. I don’t want young men to make the same mistakes i did.
And when it comes to men I advised my much younger sister to avoid the three G’s. Gamblers, gangsters and green with envy. Marry a gambler and she’ll have nothing, and when he has won and buys something nice it won’t be long before he’s selling it off for stake money. Marry a gangster and she’ll spend her life visiting prisons to see the old man and probably any sons she has. Marry somebody green with envy, ie. a jealous man, and jealousy is so powerful a negative emotion he could end up killing her.
If you can, go to Russia and begat Big Families –
https://russian-faith.com/photography-trends-monasteries/ancient-russian-towns-home-american-settlers-traditional-family
There’s only been a few great women in history: Boudicca, Joan d’Arc, Unity Mitford, Leni Riefenstahl, Diana Mosley, SS camp guards, Female Hitler Youth (BDM)..
“Let the woman be girt with a sword before me” –Liber AL III:11
When I was in my early 20’s, several of my male, married, coworkers in their late 20’s would tell me, “Whatever you do, don’t get married”, mostly because their wives provided little sex after the marriage, and most got fat. Then I fell in and out of love with a girlfriend who dumped me, married quickly, and got extremely fat.
With the girlfriends I dated, we generally got along except for political issues, American women being liberal. That bothered me, and I am unapologetic about my right wing political views.
I finally married in my mid forties to a younger Eastern European woman who is more traditional, did not get fat, and is an excellent mother. There are some cultural differences, and some typical household tension, but otherwise, I can’t complain. The grass is pretty green on my side.
I’ve yet to meet anyone that I would swear a vow to, and even if I thought i did, I still wouldn’t. I’ve yet to see the point in contractualizing emotions.
I’m in my early 60’s…been married since 1986,…. we dated since mid 1970’s..have 3 healthy normal children. We had our children while in our early 30’s
We had a group of High School friends, approx. 30…and many of us married parties from within this group..most still married.(and maybe one or two divorces). We had a couple of gay guys in group(both deceased..).didn’t bother us…accepted them for who they were.
IMHO..the secret was to find a party you have that attraction to…there is that classic “love at first sight” kick in. I shared one class with my future spouse(ie where I met her)..yet we built a relationship. It could have been another person, as I was also attracted to other females in the group, but I wanted commitment, not playing the field.
I liken it to each person, when young, is still a work in progress, like a ball of clay and we each shape the other and become a more unified entity. However, when older, this “mutual molding” process rarely works as they get older and set in their ways…..which often leads to friction sooner or later. Even after marriage, its a work in progress that requires fine tuning at times. My wife and I share opposite views on many issues, but that doesn’t impact our relationship….its called love and mutual respect.
Since then…I think the (((feminist movement))) has taken over as planned, women are confused, and if/when they wake up from Cultural Marxism trance….its too late…they either never got married and/or have no children and they are increasingly infertile and often become” Cat Ladies”. OR…many hetero men simply seek brides from countries like Philippines….Russia etc where the women are more like the classic females.
Men are equally confused, and by the time they wake up their lives and chance of a good healthy relationship are also winding down.
That said, I think it best to have no relationship if it will otherwise result with depression, heartache and other trauma. (This may also explain why people are “gay” . normally hetero, but confused,….get desperate and this try “Plan B” err LGBQT2.)
Regardless ,I don’t envy the younger generations…
I was well past forty before I realised how materialistic people, and indeed women specifically — being those I would look to partner up with — are.
A (young) man should NEVER EVER CHASE A WOMAN. He should concentrate on his work, what interests him, and his health.
In immediately cognising a woman he might like to become more familiar with he might chance his arm, and from Thin Lizzy’s “Boy Are Back In Town”, “if that girl don’t want to know forget her…” But if a man has achieved alaphadom he should pick from candidates who chase him. In this way he becomes the senior partner.
A woman observes the maxim in aphorism form what Groucho Marx — with some paraphrasing — said as a joke: “Any club that would want me as a member isn’t worth joining.”
A teacher of mine once said: “A man should never love a woman more than she loves him…”
@Guy Reid-Brown…Why would I want to go to Antifa Russia where they jail people for 5 years for questioning the Holocaust fable?
Dating-wise, it’s good to be quiet and mysterious. OR to have a woman on your arm already – then your stock is going up.
To get married, avoid materialistic types and those who live their lives through social media. (I know; that eliminates 95% of women, right there.) I always recommend to my nephews – find a woman in the real world, and ideally by volunteering, e.g. in an animal shelter or at least an art / drama group. That way you stand a chance of meeting someone real and caring. Social media is 100% fake.
By contrast, if the woman in your life spends hours every day scrolling through handbag pics on Instagram – let me tell you, NOTHING will every be enough or good enough for her. So if you want to spend the next 20 years working 24/7 to cater to her uncontrollable whims and fancies, go for it.
Also… Thanks to dating apps, the fringe lifestyles of big-city gays have now gone totally mainstream. Dick pics and one-night stands, that’s how many people even in rural areas roll nowadays. So overall, realistically, it’s not the greatest of times or environments out there today for courtship and marriage.
@Rixon
Why are comments unfavourable to Makow being deleted?
Because I value his contribution and the “comments” are often no more than insults.
‘Aleister on September 7, 2022 at 9:12 pm
@Guy Reid-Brown…Why would I want to go to Antifa Russia where they jail people for 5 years for questioning the Holocaust fable?’
Everybody online wants all the World ordered to their specifications, otherwise they reject it.
That place is never going to Be on this Earth.
OK, so stay in the UK then, and watch your world being destroyed daily and demographically by the stupidest and the most malevolent who have been given the Power by the wealthiest and the most malevolent.
Did I say it was perfect?
Did I say it was Heaven ?
Of course it bloody isn’t.
That is the whole point of Manning Up in the first place – if this was Heaven , there would be no need to go through all the hassle and sacrifice of Creating Family in the first place.
Read the article – THOSE people are creating a new future within a landmass that encompasses 11 time zones.
I wouldn’t advise expecting a specific Government to conform to all your expectations, and then rejecting the entire land mass if it doesn’t.
Help create the future like all those families mentioned in the articles are doing
there is nothing worse than childless women after 40 …all they want is to destroy men for they hate masculinity and natural order