{"id":93368,"date":"2014-03-22T07:51:26","date_gmt":"2014-03-22T07:51:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/?p=93368"},"modified":"2014-03-25T08:19:09","modified_gmt":"2014-03-25T08:19:09","slug":"a-player-reflects-on-young-women-today","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/?p=93368","title":{"rendered":"A &#8220;Player&#8221; Reflects on Young Women Today"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal<\/w:View> <w:Zoom>0<\/w:Zoom> <w:DoNotOptimizeForBrowser \/> <\/w:WordDocument> <\/xml><![endif]--><\/p>\n<h1 class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><!--[if gte mso 9]><xml> <w:WordDocument> <w:View>Normal<\/w:View> <w:Zoom>0<\/w:Zoom> <w:DoNotOptimizeForBrowser \/> <\/w:WordDocument> <\/xml><![endif]--><\/h1>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;amp;amp; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;amp;amp; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\">Toby Moreland, 29, is the pen name of a sales professional living in the southeastern United States.<\/span><\/em><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;amp;amp; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;amp;amp; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\"> <\/span><\/h3>\n<h1 class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: 12.0pt; font-family: &amp;amp;amp; mso-fareast-font-family: &amp;amp;amp; mso-ansi-language: EN-GB; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA;\"> <\/span>By Toby Moreland &#8212; henrymakow.com March 21, 2014<\/h1>\n<h5><span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 15.0pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/airheads1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-93373\" title=\"airheads1\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/airheads1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"256\" height=\"170\" \/><\/a>I have been all over the place in my own life. I&#8217;ve gone through spurts of what I refer to as &#8220;hitting on everything that moves.&#8221;<\/span><\/h5>\n<h5>I&#8217;ve lived with a woman in a committed relationship for several years. I&#8217;ve had long distance flames, and I&#8217;ve seen multiple women at the same time.<\/h5>\n<h5>I&#8217;ve had periods of self-imposed abstinence. I&#8217;m not an expert, but I&#8217;m an observant person.<\/h5>\n<h5>I can tell you that young women today (18-34) are a very different demographic than their Baby Boomer or Generation X mothers.<\/h5>\n<h5>Most of these gals are not, in fact, feminists. They do, however, have feminist knee-jerk thoughts and reactions embedded into their minds.<\/h5>\n<h5>I don&#8217;t think Dr. Makow&#8217;s assertion that &#8220;love for a woman is 90% trust&#8221; applies to this age group.<\/h5>\n<h5>For these women, <em>respect<\/em> is the key ingredient. If they don&#8217;t fully respect the man they&#8217;re with, the relationship is doomed.<\/h5>\n<h5>It&#8217;s actually more important that the woman can be trusted<em> by the man<\/em>, for (at least) the following reasons:<\/h5>\n<h5>1) Men are not directly connected to reproduction. When a woman has a child, it&#8217;s clearly hers. When a man has a child &#8211; and is going to spend his life providing\/caring for it &#8211; he needs to have faith that it&#8217;s his until\/unless it&#8217;s obvious.<\/h5>\n<h5>2) Most young women respect &#8220;players&#8221;. It&#8217;s a show of power and authority. It means that he takes what he wants and isn&#8217;t ashamed of it. All that alpha crap. This is obviously a generalization, but it&#8217;s more true than not. So if a young woman is settled in with a man who has stopped trying to attract other women (because he has the one he wants), other men who are still sexually aggressive are more appealing in this way.<\/h5>\n<h5>However, this can be negated if the man is attacking his career goals or more important things with bravado. A shrinking economy makes this difficult for many.<\/h5>\n<h5 class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 15.0pt;\"> <\/span><\/h5>\n<h5 class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 15.0pt;\">3) &#8230;<\/span><\/h5>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 15.0pt;\"> <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"mso-bidi-font-size: 15.0pt;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/henrymakow.com\/2014\/03\/Young-Women-Today-Reflections-of-a-Player%20.html\">Continues &#8230;<\/a><span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/henrymakow.com\/2014\/03\/Young-Women-Today-Reflections-of-a-Player%20.html\"> <\/a><br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>An &#8220;experienced&#8221; man paints an unflattering picture of young women today. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":39262,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[61],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-93368","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-Commentary"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93368","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/39262"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=93368"}],"version-history":[{"count":12,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93368\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":93627,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93368\/revisions\/93627"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=93368"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=93368"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=93368"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}