{"id":42892,"date":"2012-02-11T08:41:33","date_gmt":"2012-02-11T08:41:33","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/?p=42892"},"modified":"2012-02-12T10:05:34","modified_gmt":"2012-02-12T10:05:34","slug":"why-do-women-love-gay-men","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/?p=42892","title":{"rendered":"Why do Women Love Gay Men?"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 style=\"text-align: center;\">Henry Makow \u2013 henrymakow.com February 10, 2012<\/h2>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/gays.jpg\"><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-42902\" title=\"gays\" src=\"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/02\/gays.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"287\" height=\"176\" \/><\/span><\/a><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">&#8220;Why are women these days so enamored with homosexual men?&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">A reader asked this question recently.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\"><em>&#8220;There&#8217;s a gay guy at my work who&#8217;s totally obnoxious, self-centered, and spiteful, and yet all the female employees adore him.\u00a0 They&#8217;re hover around him all day like groupies, hanging on his every word and laughing at his jokes.&#8221;<\/em><em> <\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><em><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">&#8220;Are they just too stupid to realize he&#8217;s a jerk, or are women so insecure in the company of real men that they prefer the emasculated ones?\u00a0 This seems to be the case everywhere.&#8221;<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">Before I give my opinion, let&#8217;s look at some of the explanations I found online.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">1. <strong>Gay men are<a href=\"http:\/\/ca.askmen.com\/dating\/curtsmith_300\/332b_why-women-love-gay-men.html\"> <span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">better friends<\/span><\/a><\/strong>: &#8220;Women love the fit, stylish, sensitive, sarcastic and supportive gay man. He looks good, listens to her and sympathizes. He is loyal to her (just not to his gay lover.)\u00a0 They are both superficial and get on like a house on fire.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">2. <strong>Gay men are more fun!<\/strong> As<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/wp-admin\/yahoo%20answers%20http:\/\/answers.yahoo.com\/question\/index?qid=20061111165739AAgWdkr\"><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\"> <strong><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">one woman said<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/a><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">, &#8220;All the out gay guys I have ever known are just plain fun to be around. They are sensitive, intelligent, creative, wonderful people, usually with a fabulous sense of style&#8211;everything a woman wants in a man&#8230;&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">3.\u00a0 <strong>No pressure to have sex. <a href=\"http:\/\/answers.yahoo.com\/question\/index?qid=20061111165739AAgWdkr\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Another woman said<\/span><\/a>,<\/strong>\u00a0 &#8220;Straight women are tired of loser straight men always hitting on them and wanting to get into their jeans. Women know that this isn&#8217;t an issue with a gay man, so they are free to let down their guard and enjoy themselves with guys who do not have an ulterior motive, or female genitalia on their minds.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">4. <strong>Attracted to\u00a0 gay male relationships.<\/strong> They are &#8220;equal&#8221; and the sex is hot: In the words of <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/answers.yahoo.com\/question\/index?qid=20061111165739AAgWdkr\"><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">another woman<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/a><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">, &#8220;the idea of two guys kissing makes me feel all warm n fuzzy inside! I just think its so genuine and attractive. And so equal. With girl\/guy couples there&#8217;s always that role thing going, and I always think the guy could easily end up being a &#8216;traditional&#8217; male (i.e. NOT good!) but with gay guys they&#8217;re so equal and lovey! They show their emotions and that&#8217;s attractive in a man (though, I don&#8217;t want floods of tears or anything!)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">(In fact, gay male relationships are not equal, but mimic heterosexual relationships where the one playing the male role is dominant.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">According to <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.afterelton.com\/people\/2009\/11\/women-and-gay-men-survey-results\"><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">a gay pop culture web site<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/a><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"> <\/span>survey, half of the 2,000 women who answered found male homosexual relationships to be a &#8220;turn on.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">Thirty-three percent like gay pairings because they &#8220;really enjoy love stories, no matter the gender of the pairing,&#8221; while six percent say &#8220;It&#8217;s unattainable for me and I love the fantasy.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">It claims there are an unbelievable 117,000 websites about homosexual male relationships that cater to straight women.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ccffff;\">Many women are simply aroused by the idea of two men together. Cheri told us: &#8220;I don&#8217;t have any political reasons for enjoying gay couples on TV, movies and in books. I just like watching good-looking men, and the more the better.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.henrymakow.com\/why_do_women_love_gays.html \"><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Continues at source&#8230; <\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The fact is that women do seem to enjoy the company of gay men. Why, Henry Makow asks: &#8220;Are women so insecure in the company of real men that they prefer emasculated ones?&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":39262,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[61],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-42892","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-Commentary"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42892","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/39262"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=42892"}],"version-history":[{"count":20,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42892\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":42972,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/42892\/revisions\/42972"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=42892"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=42892"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.thetruthseeker.co.uk\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=42892"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}