Breasts are for Babies, Not Men
Henry Makow – Henry Makow.com July 4, 2010
I'm trying to understand Western society's breast fetish.
Dare I say it? They're not that attractive. They are fatty protrusions designed to nourish babies. Nozzles. Jugs. Cones. Sacks. Melons in a mesh bag. Tennis balls. You get the picture.
What are men supposed to do with these sweaty bookends?
For a few years, they maintain a jaunty buoyancy, but then gravity takes over.
Now that heterosexuality has degenerated to the level of fruit flies copulating, I'm getting tired of it. Courtship used to have a purpose.
Our obsession with sex is a sign of mass neuroses. The idealization of the fertile female is primitive and pagan. Obviously, we are conditioned to obsess on sex to distract us from deep politics.
Ladies, put a clock in it. Show us something we haven't seen a gazillion times. What makes yours so special?
How about cultivating real qualities that actually differentiate you from a billion other women? Like personality, charm, humor, taste, style, character, intelligence, homemaking skills, modesty. How about learning to love men and children instead of yourselves?
(I know there is a minority of women who still do this. )
'MEN ACT LIKE BABIES'
In many cultures, breasts aren't sexual at all. For example, women in Mali go around with bare breasts. They're always feeding their babies. And when they were told that in our culture men are fascinated with breasts, they burst out laughing. They laughed so hard, they fell on the floor. They said, "You mean, men act like babies?"
(Carolyn Latteier, Breasts, The Women's Perspective on an American Obsession")
Why do men pretend tits are attractive? Is it because so few things distinguish men and women these days? Is it because breasts are the last outpost of gender, before we reach the clammy zone popularized by "The Vagina Monologues."?
So we have to make a big deal of them? Pretend.. "Oh my, what is this?
Now that's a magnificent pair. How did you do that?" Are men just being chivalrous and polite?
Used for sexual vampirism and divorced from femininity and child rearing, breasts are weapons of war, not love.
They don't carry milk. They are filled with embalming fluid. We might as well fire them from canons.
There is something decadent and senile about a society obsessed with titties.
Ladies, button up. We don't want to see your tits any more.
Men, let's expand this discourse. It's not just breasts that are for babies. It's the need for female love. Men must outgrow that just as they outgrow Mommy's love.
Until we do, women will quite naturally use this to manipulate and exploit us.
Due to toxic feminism, many women have lost the ability to love men. Men need to adjust accordingly and learn to live without women's love.
That's when we become men.
LOVE AND MARRIAGE
Surprisingly, this doesn't preclude marriage.It just means finding women who are cooperative and useful. There are still many left.
It is as important to like your wife as to love her. Romantic love is idolatry.
I saw a man's personal ad recently: "I'm looking for someone just like me, only female!"
What a recipe for disaster! If she is female, she can't be like you.
This is the most common mistake men make: Looking for a woman to give them themselves.
Want to find yourself? Do good work.
Love isn't seeing yourself mirrored in another person. It's based on the recognition that women are totally different and thus able to complement a man. Look for a help meet, not a soul mate.
Love is based on years of sharing. A fine wine takes time to age.
If you're bored with your marriage, that means it is a resounding success.
The purpose of marriage is to turn men off sex and women so they can concentrate on more important things.
If your wife has done that for you, love her twice as much.
Last updated 07/07/2010