Sex and Romance: Detours on the Road of Life
Henry Makow Ph.D. – Save the Males July 15, 2009
As I approach my 60th birthday (in November), my biggest regret is the time and energy I wasted in the pursuit of the fair sex.
If I am any indication, nature hard wires males to have sexual intercourse for the purpose of propagation. Mercifully, nature has released me from its powerful programming. But when I was younger, I surrounded the fertile female with an angelic aura and considered her sexual fulfillment an essential experience. Little did I suspect that it was all a major detour.
Nature's programming is augmented by society's. In Illuminati controlled movies and education, sex is cast as life's ultimate experience and a prerequisite for spiritual and mental health. School children in the UK are now learning that an an orgasm a day keeps the doctor away! The Illuminati control us through porn, promiscuity and sex addiction. They want us to have sex but not families, so they don't encourage monogamy. We will no longer get our identity and meaning from our family roles (husband, wife, sister, brother, mother, father.)
Sex is also used to distract us from the fact that we are being colonized by the Illuminati in a world government.
There are many drugs like Viagra designed to help people copulate into old age, but none for young people who wish to suppress their sex drive and keep their sanity and perspective. This despite a huge demand for such a drug from couples with mismatched sex drives.
Isn't it suspicious that profit oriented corporations would pass up this lucrative opportunity?
ADVICE TO MY YOUNGER SELF
From the vantage point of experience, I would tell my 25-year-old self: Don't be such a sap. Stop being a victim of nature's programming and society's brainwashing. Reprogram yourself. You don't need sex. You don't need "love." It's all in the mind. People seek what they are taught to seek, are drawn to what they are told is attractive. Make those decisions yourself.
Women are highly overrated. Young woman today are taught to seek career instead of marriage. Many have lost their femininity and have little to offer men. We are constantly tempted by their naked form but they aren't that attractive. They look like elaborate plumbing fixtures or large earthworms with boobs. They were designed for childbearing.
Don't look for a woman to nurture and encourage you. Emptiness you feel is due to your lack of vocation. Seek self confidence and recognition from your work, not from a "relationship." Use your God-given talents to do what you were born to do. Make that your first priority.
Look for a helpmate, not a soul mate, someone who is compatible yet different, and learn to value the difference. Don't look for someone who "understands" you. Don't look for yourself. Look for someone you can live with without friction, comfortably and creatively.
The fact that most men choose on the basis of sex appeal means many women with personality and talent are available. Marry one of these, someone whose character and skill set complements your own. Sex appeal is not a good basis for marriage. There is no correlation between physical beauty and character.
Don't expect perfection. You're not perfect either. Enjoy the good and keep your mouth shut about the bad. Don't have unrealistic expectations of marriage. It's a loving, living and working arrangement, not a heavenly state.
Wait to have children until you have established yourself in terms of career and maturity. Don't have children by accident. Have them as a conscious act of love. They are your organic growth, an extension of yourself. They represent an ongoing act of love. They are an act of faith in God, in life and in the future.
If I had to do it over again, I'd try to take charge of my relationship with women rather than respond to natural and social programming as I did for so long. I'd focus on varied goals and not look to "love" for satisfaction. I'm grateful that despite all my mistakes, I was finally able to find a degree of happiness and stability in marriage.
my "Overrated: Young Women, Sex, Romance & Lobster"
and "Men Who Get Women"
Henry Makow, Ph.D. is the inventor of the board game Scruples and the author of "A Long Way to go for a Date." His past articles on Feminism and the New World Order can be found on his web site www.savethemales.ca He enjoys receiving comments at firstname.lastname@example.org
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