It's OK to be a Woman

“In Spring, a young man's thoughts turn to love” and so do a young woman's.

Like pretty daffodils poking their heads above matted leaves, attractive young women are suddenly in evidence on neighborhood streets. They are usually alone and strike me as confused. They want male approval but are told men are evil. Their instincts say get married and have children but society tells them families are oppressive: "Get a career instead."

If I could talk to these young women, I would say this:

You have been betrayed by society. Feminism, a lesbian ideology which denies gender differences, is poison for women. It has destroyed the things you most want and need, namely love, courtship and marriage.

Young men no longer think in terms of winning your friendship and love. They no longer need to marry or even commit to get sex. If you don't go to bed, another girl will. No more dates. No more flowers. No more dinners, dances and movies. It's booze, bed and “Good Bye.”

Women's rights indeed!

Feminism is not a spontaneous grass roots social phenomena. It is top-down elite social engineering- i.e. behavior modification by the mass media, government and the education system. It was wholly sponsored by the central bankers in order to make women have careers instead of families.

Film producer, the late Aaron Russo was told this by the Rockefellers. Watch this video.

The purpose is to undermine the family as the basic social institution so people will be more dependent on government and corporations. It is part of a larger plan to bring in a veiled totalitarian world government by dynamiting the four legs of our human identity: race, religion, nation and family. The War on Terror and 9-11 are other aspects of this elite agenda.

You are in the Springtime of your life. Just as flowers blossom now, you are at the height of your fertility at ages 18-26 and most attractive to males. This is the time when you must marry and have children if you want to be surrounded by loved ones when you are older. We are part of a natural cycle and we can't postpone nature.

So my message is: reject casual sex. Demand courtship and love. (If you don't have a strong exclusive connection with a man before sex, he certainly won't have time for you after the challenge is gone.)
Consecrate yourself to your future husband and children. If you belong to many men, it will be hard to ever belong to one.

Concentrate on prospective marriage-minded males, usually a few years older than you. Don't waste your time on boys or nomads. You want a home builder.

Do not compete with other women on the basis of sex. Let the sluts have the sex. You are looking for a permanent lifetime commitment. Therefore cultivate the qualities and skills desirable in a wife and a mother. Essentially this is a willingness to sacrifice for the right man. (This will make him love you.) And the right man is someone you admire and love, who is dedicated, trustworthy, loyal and loving.

Meanwhile pursue a career as a second priority. You need to be independent in order to hold out for the right man.

I describe the dynamics of heterosexuality, the exchange of female power for male love, here.


Our sex drive is a natural instinct to ensure we propagate. It is like hunger for food or love. It is the most intimate you can be with another person physically so you had better be intimate emotionally first. It is best in the context of love.

Our neo-pagan society has turned sex (and love) into something it was never meant to be, a mystical religious experience and way of achieving salvation. This is because our society is secretly run by a sex cult, Freemasonry. (What do you think obelisks like the Washington Monument represent?)

Eckhardt Tolle was asked a question that illustrated how sex and love have become our religion.

“I always thought that true enlightenment is not possible except through love in a relationship between a man and a woman. Isn't this what makes us whole again? How can one's life be fulfilled until that happens?”

Tolle answered: “Salvation is not elsewhere in place or time. It is here and now.” (“The Power of Now,” p. 145)

Salvation!!?? Can you see how difficult it is to establish stable relationships if expectations are so high?

No wonder many men find women unapproachable. Women hold the key to their salvation! It doesn't help that the culture is inflating women's egos—telling them they are goddesses. Despite their beauty, young women are just as ordinary as men.

Don't think in terms of salvation. Think in terms of what kind of life you want and what your needs are. Look for a compatible person who will fulfill your needs, and whose needs you can meet. If two people come through for each other over the course of time, they will love each other.

Put the romantic stuff on the back burner. Usually it is based on Hollywood nonsense and idealization. People aren't perfect and not worthy of adulation. They are all flawed and we love them for what they are.

In conclusion, you have been betrayed by society. Feminism is elite social engineering. Your choice is whether to participate in the natural life cycle and grow and be fulfilled, or be another casualty of the elite war against gender and family.


See also my "The Dying Art of Femininity"


Male response:

Thanks Henry for writing a great article. I'm a 22 yr. old American guy who gets plenty of attention from women, but I wish I could pass out this article to every girl I've ever met.

Even though it would probably mean that sex would be less available for me if these women would take this articles advice. I DON"T CARE ! , As strong as my desire to have sex with pretty girls is, it doesn't compare to the desire I have to truly Love a woman. The strongest desire I have in my heart has always been to find a girl that could unleash all the love that I have in my heart.

Thankfully, it only takes one women, and hopefully she's reading this article right now.--R