Tiger Woods – A Lesson for All Men

(This revises my March 2008 article on
Eliot Spitzer, to apply to Tiger Woods.)

Tiger Wood’s downfall contains an almost Biblical lesson for all men: Don’t be controlled by your dick. It will ruin your life.

Tiger Woods had everything: a beautiful wife and family, athletic achievement and fortune, and the respect of the whole world. Why throw it away for skank?

This seems to be the year for athletes self-destructing over women.

Last summer, retired (and married) Tennessee Titan quarterback Steve McNair was shot dead by a girlfriend who feared he was going to dump her. She then shot herself.

Today, Cincinnati Bengal receiver Chris Henry died during a domestic dispute with his fiance. And closer to home, Winnipeg Blue Bomber coach Mike Kelly got fired today after roughing up an ex- girlfriend.

The lesson for men: Sow your wild oats before you get married. Then, marry for life. Find a woman who is naturally traditional and accepts your leadership. Devote yourself to her and to your children. Restore to marriage and family the sanctity they deserve.


Sex is a powerful force. Either we control it or it (and woman) controls us. Like Samson, Woods forfeited his power for sex.

Men are fighting a powerful meme created by the banker-owned mass media. Although sexual attraction is based on a natural instinct to propagate, the media has divorced sex from procreation and turns it into an entertainment, therapy and commodity.

It proclaims anonymous sex is an end in itself, meaningful and liberating. This elevates the nubile female to the level of goddess.

Sex is an appetite like food. If you don’t get food, you will think of nothing else. It’s the same with sex. The answer? Men have got to marry women who like sex and “forgeta ’bout it.”

It’s time we deconstructed anonymous sex. Somehow, females have got the upper hand. Much like the diamond cartel, they have hoodwinked males into thinking that a commodity as commonplace and plentiful as p—y is rare and precious. It’s not. In Andy Warhol’s words, “Sex is the biggest nothing in the world.”

I’ll never understand why a man would owe a woman for sexual gratification. Why shouldn’t she owe him? Sex is just as necessary for her. What fools men are. Don’t they know that all cats are gray in the dark?

The excitement for a man is a woman’s response to him. How responsive can a woman be to a hook-up? How satisfying can it be if, as in Eliot Spitzer’s case, the meter is running? In anonymous sex, both parties are miming what they think should be happening, rather than admitting that the experience is empty and degrading.


Masturbating is a far better solution for single men than anonymous sex. Do I have to list the advantages? You can have your flawless woman and fantasy. You don’t have to worry about satisfying her. Afterward, she’s gone instantly. And there’s no chance of pregnancy or STD. Oh yeah. It’s FREE. And often it’s better.

Let’s deconstruct the fertile female while we’re at it. Having lost her ability to love men and children, young women today are in danger of becoming obsolete. They are scrawny men, with narrow shoulders, a couple of vestigial feed bags on their chests, and some unsightly jungle below.

Young women are pretty much physically identical. As one wag said, “Put a clock in it.”

What other creatures get by largely on their looks? Only a narcissist would imagine she is exceptional. There are 500 million just like her.

Yet despite the tedious repetitive nature of the product, male yokels have pandered for it for centuries.

The only thing that truly differentiates women is beauty, grace, talent, intelligence, character and personality. Yet most young women today ignore these and compete on the basis of sex appeal.

I love feminine women, the kind that marry and sacrifice for husband and family, the kind that know that feminine is the opposite of masculine.

We live in a culture that promotes arrested development by inflating the status of women and teaching men to pander to them, with sex as their reward like a dog treat. Of course women eventually tire of this, and men end up neutered and alone.


Tiger Woods spent too much time overachieving and didn’t develop emotionally. Part of that requires we get sex out of our system. Realize how truly mundane it is. That there is no “there” there. With all the sex available, with all the porn, when will men finally learn that casual sex is a bore?

Men must also realize that no woman can give them what they really seek— themselves. You get that by serving God (i.e. a spiritual ideal.)

Romantic love also is a crock. Women are just companions on the journey. Real love is based on meeting mutual needs over a long period of time. It is based on sticking with someone when they’re down. It’s based on loyalty and trust.

In closing, let’s learn from Tiger Wood’s folly. Sex is used to control men (and women.) When we control our sex drive, we are free to serve a higher master.

This seems a good time to plug my friend Julian Lee’s website www.celibacy.info dedicated to teaching men the benefits of abstinence. My interview with Julian is available in my Broadcast section.

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Henry Makow, Ph.D. is the inventor of the board game Scruples and the author of “A Long Way to go for a Date.” His past articles on Feminism and the New World Order can be found on his web site www.savethemales.ca He enjoys receiving comments at henry@savethemales.ca

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